Paying it Forward for Tim Kight
Character is the cornerstone of trust. Before you can lead others, you must first manage yourself. Nothing can happen through you until it first happens in you. The culture of the organization begins with the character of the leaders. – Tim Kight
My dear friend and mentor, Tim Kight, was recently called home to God after a valiant battle with cancer. Tim’s life was a testament to his unwavering dedication as he coached and uplifted others until his last days. While he is renowned for his work on R-Factor, teaching E+R=O to adults and children alike, his true legacy lies in those he trained to prioritize love and leadership.
In the decade that I was blessed to have Tim as a friend and mentor, he shaped me into a better husband, father, son, brother, and, most importantly, a better man. Tim taught me to understand my mindset, how I responded to the events in my world, and to act with purpose. I learned to understand the impact an emotional rather than intentional response has on the outcome of each situation. Our frequent conversations challenged me to push my skills to the edge – and to look inward when the outcome didn’t meet expectations. Tim taught not only self-awareness but also how to build self-awareness in others.
Tim and I often discussed that the most important message you communicate is your daily attitude and behavior. I am intentional in my desire to lead with faith, hope, and love. Tim’s coaching of me and many other leaders is a legacy that leaves the world a better place. While the systems and Focus 3 will continue to engage organizations, schools, and communities, those of us who have Tim’s message happening through us will continue his work.
I already miss my dear friend and mentor. While I won’t have him to call when I need wisdom or advice, and while I’ll still think about sending him a text when a student shares a press pause moment, I will reach out to others in collaboration. My goal is to serve others as Tim has served us. Years ago, Tim wrote in an email to me, “Exceptional leaders create their own energy, and they focus their energy on things that matter. They love their work, and the team they work with, and people can feel it.” We all felt Tim’s love – now let’s continue his legacy and live with that same love ourselves.